Sorry to hear about your struggles. From what I can gather Estralis 50/250 is the conti type of HRT, apparantly one can get bleeds on this in the beginning phase. At your age, I would chat to your Dr about a HRT that gives you a monthly bleed rather and that should regulate things, what about trying the gel as you can start off with as little as one pump and build up to 2 or 3 from there and use a separate, more natural progesterone, like Utrogestone. The progesterone in your patch is a synthetic one and can cause plenty of water retention. Bear in mind, that you have not been on HRT for many years and your body will take time to adjust, but I would give things time and then discuss with your Dr if you are not happy on this one, it can several attempts, to find the right HRT for your body, there are lots out there, so dont give up... all the best..