Hi there. I have been a member for some time now but I have never introduced myself properly.
I am 46 and my periods started going haywire about 6 years ago. I have never had heavy periods and was regular every 24 days which lasted for 5 days. I have had 3 periods this year. I have always suffered with PMT (2 weeks of every month), together with postnatal depression and now seem to have constant PMT/anxiety which is getting worse. My GP put me on antidepressants a short while after my first daughter was born and I carried on taking these for 13 years! My daughters are now 13 and 14.
Earlier this year I was told by my GP that I had to come off antidepressants. I found they were not helping so much any more anyway. Thanks to this super website/members, I was able to do some research and went to my GP in June as I could no longer deal with the hot flushes, night sweats, insomnia and anxiety. I was given Femseven Sequi which was helpful for the hot flushes and night sweats but felt terrible on the progesterone stage. So I went back to my GP and asked for an oestrogen only patch together with Utrogestan. My GP decided to refer me to my local Meno Clinic as he admitted he wasn't sure about HRT. So I had a blood test (FSH 46) and was seen by a gynaecologist on 12 December. He spoke about Professor Studd's research and decided to put in a Mirena coil for the progesterone and said he would give me a high dose oestrogen patch. I said I didn't want a Mirena as it had made me go a bit crazy when I had it before but he said that was because I didn't have enough oestrogen and that I should "trust him". He prescribed 75mg Estradot patch.
So, three weeks down the line and I still feel terrible. I am constantly tired and moody and this festive period has put me over the edge. I am at a loss as to what to do next. The gynae has discharged me back to my GP. Should I have the Mirena taken out, or should I ask GP for higher dose of Estradot?
I am so sorry for this long post but I didn't want to miss anything out. I am supposed to be going to a party tonight but just want to curl up in bed and sleep tbh. My husband has had enough of my mood swings and family life is so tough atm.
I hope some of you lovely ladies can offer me some advice. Thanking you so much in advance xxx