OMG really thought I was asking a very weird question

but trying to see why at times VA gets worse and it seems when having trouble with going to the toilet I get a build up causes bloating and then VA seems to get worse but also 2/3 days before my period is due its bad as well

just like before Vagifem
Rose linked the two because: if my life changes straight away my body closes down e.g. visiting in laws one toilet in the house, no lock and i panic I am use to an en suite at home. I have moved house and no en suite awaiting to install one so now sharing bathroom with the rest of my large family have a lock but need time lol sorry if TMI so it kicked in bad the last few days prior to post, so took the plunge and posted the question also have a heavy feeling.
I am so glad I posted the question because others are experiencing problems but that's where we must not be embarrassed to ask any question!!!!!
Thank you to all replies but does anyone have an idea why it flares up every month before my period xx