Hi lila
I agree with honeybun - I am very surprised you were given this one when the ones you have tried have given you headaches. It is most likely the norethisterone in the Kliovance that is the problem - it gives some women headches/migraines - it did to me. It is found in all the Klio combi preparations, the Evorel combi patches, the Elleste combi preparations as wel as Nuvelle and Climesse - although you seemed to be OK on Nuvelle? However our bodies do change with age too re sensitivities/hormone levels.
Do have a look at the menu on the left under HRT preparations and you will see what I mean - they are all listed and what they contain:
http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/postmeno.phpNo HRT should make you feel depressed. If it does - it is the wrong preparation.
I too use Utrogestan which is the only bio-identical progesterone licensed in UK for HRT.
You would need a separate oestrogen with this - and since pills affect you and you suffer from headaches I would definitely go for a patch or gel - which also can give the higher doses you will need at your age. You are on a very low dose for your age which cold also make you feel low. Estradot are very small and do not fall off easily (OK now and again) and changed twice weekly.
Personally at your age I would prefer to be on a cycle ( ie get a monthly bleed) which is what you would have been having anyway. This way you woud have just over two weeks of oestrogen and just under two weeks of progesterone. If all is OK with the utrogestan, the worst that could happen would be a few days pmt after you stop the utrogestan before it is out of your system - which you would have expected anyway with a monthly period.
Also as you are young have you been tested for tesosterone levels - the full test - could your prepature menopause be causing depleted levels in this horomone which can contribute to hormone related depression? I would urge you to ask for specialist advice which I presume you have not been getting since any specialist would have suggested patch/gel and utrogestan combo long ago given your adverse reaction to all the others!
Hope this helps
Hurdity x