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bettyboo22

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how do you cope
« on: June 17, 2013, 12:47:40 PM »

 :'( How do other people cope or is it just me ,
We are struggling money wise have done almost since we got married
debt wise we brought the council house that i lived in second marriage
he didnt like the idea of a council place
After we brought it thats when when all the hassel started renting
finding a rental property that accepts pets Dogs is very difficult
 plus that meant i can only work part time someone has to look after the dogs
100,000 pounds debt we are in and we are thinking about going on to a iva
but it dont get any easier every day is a struggle , hubby keeps on about me looking
for jobs ive just 4 part time jobs as it is . i know he works full time but to me i get fed up
that he keeps on at me sex life has disappeared due to menopause and weight has gone on
round my middle i dont feel happy anymore
does anyone else have simular problems  :(
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CLKD

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Re: how do you cope
« Reply #1 on: June 17, 2013, 03:07:17 PM »

Do you mean that you sold the ex-council house? or are renting that and living elsewhere?

Go to the Citizens Advice Bureau for advice.  The people there will have lots of access to helping with debt. 

It sounds as though you and he need to sit down and talk to each other about where you go from here.  More and more rental properties are accepting pets.
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