Hello ellen 12, so sorry to hear that you are struggling at the moment. I recently joined the forum because I am finding the mental side of the menopause particularly difficult. I take an AD, Citalopram, which was prescribed to help reduce night sweats and anxiety as well as depression. My dose was recently increased from 20mg to 30mg and this seems to be helping. Is that something you would consider trying?
I'm sorry that I don't know more about your circumstances and can't be of greater help, I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and hopefully your GP will have some answers for you.
K.