Hi it seems that I only come here when something is going wrong & I meant to come in & share the good news! I was lucky & sailed through my meno & out the other side with hardly any trouble. But then after my periods stopped I started to get vaginal dryness, so was put on Vagifem, this helped, but my doctor didn't like prescribing it & gave me a bad time every time I went back. Than I started to lose my libido & I thought my life had ended! I read up on here & the net & then saw a newspaper clipping about Tibolone, so I asked my doctor about it & she was happy to put me on it! It took a little while but gradually I began to feel better & after about 6 months I really felt like I had got "me" back!

I gained some weight and have about 1/2 stone that won't go no matter what I do, but I can live with that. All is rosey in the garden for a couple of years

About 6 months ago I was walking my dogs, when my eyesight started going a bit fuzzy, by the time I got home I had a full on kaleidoscope going on & realised I was experiencing my very first migraine aura. My daughter has suffered with migraines for years, so told me what to do if it happened again. It has since happened about every 3-6 weeks since then. But I know what it is now so take a couple of painkillers & lay in a dark room & it goes. I got one yesterday & hubby comes home from work & finds me laying on the sofa & insists I see the doctor. I didn't wan to go, but did it for him. So we go through the symptoms ect & she asks if I have ever had them before in my life & I say now. So she says "can you do me a favour & come off the HRT" She says you don't suddenly get this in your 50's, so the HRT is causing it & it can lead to a stroke!!!!! I am in shock!!!!

And I beg her is there another way? She takes my blood pressure & I tell her how healthy & fit I am & try to backtrack, so she gives me some leaflets about migraine and a month to think about it.
I have been thinking about it all day & feel like I have gone back 2 years, trying to remember how horrible it was back then. But I am also scared of having a stroke. I am not sure if I am brave enough to wait a month, but don't want to go back to being a dried up old prune again. I can't think about anything else. I am a fit healthy lady & I might be killing myself.

I keep thinking of the positives of coming off it, losing that 1/2 stone, not putting bad stuff in my body ect, but I also think what's the point of being fit & healthy if I can't have sex ever again!
