I missed responding to the 1st post on this thread: I have nearly all the Derek Tange books [pity I can't spell

] including the 1 about how he met his wife. Loved them all.
For months I've had a quote in the back of my mind and recently I found the book from which it is from:
"Make the best decision you can with the information you have
at that time. At that time is the critical part …… You can drive yourself crazy saying 'If only we had known this, if only we had known that'. The point is, you
didn't know, so just keep telling yourselves, 'We did the best we could with what we knew'."
Quote taken from
Hannah's Gift lessons from a Life Fully Lived, written by her Mother, Maria Housden. ISBN 0 00 714203 X