It's The Change - does what it says on the tin. So many still believe that the menopause is the cessation of bleeds and a few hot flushes!

Anxiety is common for many. Whether or not it's caused by hormones, using appropriate medication for 8-12 months may help. Aches and pains may be caused by loss of oestrogen, the elasticity of our bodies. U may also require testosterone, which many aren't aware can help.
As oestrogen levels drop muscles may become lax = aches and pains as well as hiatus hernia/acid reflux. What have you been prescribed? For years I used Milk of Magnesia with success, my GP later prescribed omeprazolo which I swallow at breakfast: for the irritating clearing of throat cough which I have found out in recent months is caused by hidden sugars - Coke, chocolate

, some fruits.
When does the reflux bother you the most?
How were your moods during your menstruating years? I would cry the night B4 a bleed even if a period wasn't due.