So was i, but i think they've seen similiar before, just imagine he's wearing frilly knickers under his suit. You never know, he might well be. My scars were a prob as keloid scarring, didn't heal and became very angry, painful and tough, but you won't suffer from that as you've had surgery before. My pain was immense, i couldn't shop in the chiller/freezer section, and when my period was due weight just seemed unrelentless. I was also told that they may grow back, but i'll get it done again if i need to. Have you been working out ALL the reasons for having it done? I found that i'd just learned to live with most of them.