Why dont you ask the Dr to test your hormone levels, via a blood test. I had to insist on blood tests at 38 as my Dr would not believe I was getting hot flushes and sure enough my levels were indicative of early meno. He then had no option but to put me onto HRT.
I wish it were that easy, also, I did request blood work and it came back normal. However, those results aren't reliable, when it first started 4 years ago, I was having night sweats and hot flushes like crazy for like a week. Then they went away, however, this year they came back to a minor degree. I'm mainly really weak, off balance, can't walk for long, sever brain fog, anxious, consistently What are you doing waking up while sleep with horrible sensations in my body and anxiety, sever constipation, and vision issues. I experience all these symptoms daily and non-stop, it really sucks, even more so because I have access to great healthcare, however, I can't get any help.