Hello
I'm new here from the states, this is my second post. The first post was about my belief that I'm in perimenopause at 38-years-old, I'm sure this is what's wrong with me based on family history (mom was done with menopause at 40, grandmother at 38, and all 5 of my moms sisters was done with menopause by the age of 45) and my symptoms, which has now caused me to resort to self-harm. I know it sounds crazy, however, repeatedly slapping myself really hard, or repeatedly banging my hand up against something is the only way I can get any relief. One would think that sleep would bring some relief but it doesn't, I'm constantly waking up, and jerking awake and feeling all kinds of weird sensations. Last night I jerked awake, I was severely weak and felt as though I was going to pass out, I started screaming "I can't take this anymore, I just want to die" over and over again. My screaming woke my daughter up, she ran to me and crying, and just held me until I laid back down and went back to sleep, or at least I think I went back to sleep, I don't even know if and when I sleep, it's all messed up. I can barley walk, when I do, I feel wobbly, off balance, and as if I'm going to pass out. My daughter is 16-years-old and has watched me completely crumble over the past 4 years, I'm now feeling a great deal of anger towards her for being here, because the matter is. If I did not have her, I would have killed myself 4 years ago, I don't want to be here anymore and I feel like she's stopping me from ending this hell that I'm in. No doctor will listen to my family is toxic so I don't deal with them, and I don't have any friends. My daughter is starting to notice the swelling in my hand and the bruising on my face from the slapping and banging, what else can I do, I know a lot of you ladies have been through not getting the care you need from doctors, how did/do you cope? I coped for sooooo long, I worked for as long as could (I took leave from work on October 10th) now what do I do? I'm fading fast and have no hope that things will get better.