Hi HRTnewbie,
I am on a similar HRT to you. I am increasing slowly from Evorel 50 to 75 and I take utrogestan on days 15-26 inclusive.
I have a bag in my bathroom and keep my HRT in it for the month. I take my patches for two weeks out of the box (4 patches), I change them every Wednesday and Saturday. Once I have used those 4, I take the next 4 from the box and also take out 24 utrogestan. I then keep these in the utrogestan box on my pillow. That way I remember to take them every night until they are gone. After I finish them, I have a couple of days until my next patch change when I start again, it is therefore a 4 week cycle but within that cycle I take utrogestan for 12 days.
Before I started HRT, my periods occurred every three months, this continued while I was on a very low dose, when I increased to 50 patches I had them monthly for a few months then back to three monthly. As long as you are taking the utrogestan and not having unscheduled bleeding this is ok. My bleeds when ido have them arrive before the end of the utrogestan phase, this too is ok as long as it is regular.
I had abdominal pain for about 5 months after starting HRT, again after having covid, and again after increasing my dose to 50, hence I am taking it slow with this next increase. I also got pain when messing with my utrogestan to try and make my periods and the utrogestan match up, so my advice is to give it a proper go, it does take a while for things to settle, it’s not a quick fix, get your head around a four weekly plan and figure out a way to remind yourself where you are in your cycle. Two months in is a very short time to be changing things around.
Hope this helps.