Flan, what about the implant? Now I am not sure what the score is with having one on the NHS, but essentially, it is ( I think) like a grain of rice inserted under your skin and removed every few weeks or (or months).
Which patch did you use and at what dose?
As you say, September is ages off when you are feeling rubbish. Google the BMS and see what you can find which may see you quicker?
Some women just don't absorb well and need inordinate amounts of gel etc
What about oral HRT? Some women do well on that?