Mornings are always the worst for those of us with depression, and morning anxiety is the last to go! My MIL takes Fluoxetine as does well on it, but these things are so individual.
Your gp sounds quite annoying, maybe a different one would be more helpful? Depending on the system where you are. It's a lottery with my gp practice, you just get a random doctor. Maybe more oestrogen would help, like the others are saying. Escitalopram has fewer side effects i. e. less tiring but is more costly than citalopram so everyone gets given citalopram first but if you're experienced with ssris you probably know that anyway.
Congratulations on your granddaughter!!! 🎊 How lovely.