Hi Hurdity
I'm 67 and happy to say very fit - run regularly, yoga etc - and have no weight issues or hereditary indicators. But other friends (not on HRT) with no health issues, fit etc, have experienced events like embolism so I just got a severe case of the jitters.
What would you do in my situation? I have no friends on HRT as they all sailed through menopause unlike me. I got the works - hair, nails, flushing every 20 minutes, night sweats, joint aches, terrible anxiety, no libido and HRT was a miracle for me! I came off for a year about 10 years ago and was no better, so went onto Tibolone. It suits me really well but this stroke business is bothering me.