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[CLKD]

Any news?  Did she cope with C.mas or do they not indulge there?

[jaypo]

Sorry to say we just heard she's not good at all,the family are struggling & we just heard via my husbands aunt that she's very ill.no doubt back on a drip.The worrying thing about all this is that suicide runs in my husbands family,his half brother and his father both ended their life.Thats her uncle and grandfather. I hope she doesn't do the same,so sad ☹️

[CLKD]

She will be free from pain though.  Some illnesses can be fatal.  Are they getting any kind of counselling?  Maybe suggest that they source advice from one of the teen suicide support web-sites?

I still don't get why the Staff seem to think it OK to punish sufferers  .  It obviously ain't working!

[jaypo]

I don't know either  clkd,just feel so sad for her.

[CLKD]

It's a very difficult illness.  It affects the thought patterns which results in the person not being able to eat.  Sadly the brain can over-ride logic. 

[CLKD]

Interesting on the News about young girls 'trapped' in Hospital [can't remember which] and being 'abused' by being told that unless they eat they won't get X, Y, Z 

Any news Jaypoo?

[jaypo]

Oh? I will look that up,thanks clkd,no news but I will know something by the weekend.on the morning news,they were interviewing some girl who is a bit of a star now on YouTube,she does a comedy programme for eating disorders,I was going to get you to watch it and see if you thought it was appropriate or not,(totally forgot)she was an anorexic (I guess you always are)?? And the clip I saw was in a hospital and how she was poking fun at the drs etc,I'm sure it was something like Natalie's nutrition ,will try and find it. Back to winding up everyone on brexit I think 😂🤣😄

[CLKD]

Here it is:

West Lane Hospital in Middlesbrough.

Mental health isn't tailored closely enough to treat each person as an individual.  Sufferers need to be honest about what is triggering the anorexic habits .

Will try to get the Link and watch but keep reminding me 

I think that some people can get out of being anorexic but mine began to early and was triggered by the phobia.  Even now I have safe foods and anxiety puts me immediately into anorexic mode  but in general, I am better than I have ever been.  We even go out to eat but the smell of food cooking puts me off ....... or if the tables are too close or if people are eating food I wouldn't face 

[jaypo]

Thank you,that little programme on YouTube is nutritiously Nicola

[CLKD]

 

[jaypo]

I see that 20 staff have been suspended

[CLKD]

   how are things?

[jaypo]

Just to let you know clkd,OHs niece is still in hospital,that's now 2 years and she's 17. She's still as bad,every chance she gets she self harms.few months back she was allowed to go on a trip with her parents and she threw herself out of the moving car,she seems hell bent on killing herself.when she's 18 can't she sign herself out? I mean if she's suicidal can they keep her in?

[CLKD]

Hi!  catching up.  I think a patient can be 'sectioned' which varying - some are for 2 weeks, some are 28 days all have to go through a Court I think.  You could ring your local Mental Health Group [MIND] or the Hospital and ask.  Maybe killing herself is the 1 thing that she might have control over. 

[jaypo]

Thanks clkd,they just don't know what to do,I'm sure they will section her,just seems so pointless where she is,as it's just not working.she so so wanted to be a vet,now it's all slipping away.anyway,thank you xx