Hi ive been 1 yr without a period, the hot sweats seem more intense ( feel hotter) the anxiety is really bad and i feel so down n weepy, i got put on them coz ive no sex drive at all, and the pain i go thru dont help the fact i just do not want sex, and thats wots making the anxiety bad coz feel useless and think hubby will be better of without me or now hes wrking he will eventually meet somone,
But even when ive tryed herbal hrt ive alwYs had some reaction and ended up in hospital for tests, scans ,mamograms so been told not to take anything at all, but i was so desprate to be normal again bfor all this menopause crap started at 40 now im 51.
I just dont know wot to do , do i carry on useing them and run the risk of driving hubby mental lol, he been very understanding but i think im pushing him to far opps lol,
Or stop the patches
Im seeing a male dr again on monday morning, prob another locome dr again ,so dont know what this dr wil, say or do 🙁🙁