Hello everyone
I've been reading the messages for a few weeks but thought I'd post and say 'hello' :-)
I was diagnosed with Premature Ovarian Failure at 35, now 38 but have never been on HRT (due to slow diagnosis and no understanding from my GP!). I skipped my first period when I was 35, but they had started becoming irregular in my early thirties. Looking back, I did have a few symptoms but menopause was the last thing on my mind! I've been referred to two different gynaecologists, which I had to push for on both occasions. I'd hoped to get some proper advice regarding HRT...but neither was able to discuss the different options available or give me any advice. The second gynaecologist wanted to prescribe me Elleste duet 2mg. He didn't explain what this was on how to take it and I had to ask about risks/side affects. I do occasionally have migraines with aura so I'm not sure this would be the best route for me. Also I've no idea what my current Estradiol levels are as he didn't test me for that before prescribing the HRT. I had a transvaginal scan just over two years ago and they said everything looked okay and also FSH and LH tests. I've not had a period since May last year and whilst I experience a few hot flushes a day, my symptoms aren't extreme at the moment. Having said that, I do experience anxiety and panic attacks which I've now found out could all be part of it.
I don't feel like a normal woman at the moment. I'm single, have no children and I feel angry at myself that I left it too late, never for one moment did I think it would be too late at 35 and I feel so sad. Sometimes I can be positive about things, but then I'll be out and see a pregnant women or someone out with their children and I'll feel an immense emptiness and despair that can take my breath away
It didn't help that the doctor originally broke the news to me by phoning me up and stating 'it's the change, there's nothing you can do about it' following a second lot of blood tests and the female doctor I asked to see was no better. She basically shrugged her shoulders, told me there would be no implications of having an early menopause and sent me on my way. I just think it would've helped to have had a bit more sympathy and understanding. I feel like I've been going round in circles and not getting anywhere.
I would really like to go private and see a specialist as I don't think I can wait another 6 months to a year for help. I just want to speak with someone who has a bit of empathy and is able to answer my questions and refer me for the necessary tests. I'm in Essex, so if anyone could recommend a private consultant I would be so grateful
I was wondering about Caroline Marfleet in Colchester. I know she has an NHS clinic, but think she also sees private patients too. Has anyone seen her and know how to go about getting a private consultation? Any help or other suggestions would be gratefully appreciated :-)
Thank you for reading this and I'm so sorry I've rambled
xxx