Hi Dawn - I really wouldn't add too much progesterone as this could result in other unwanted side effects - too much progesterone can counter the benefits the oestrogen gives!
You switched from the ultra low dose of HRT to a much higher dose of HRT, so it will take longer for any bleeding and spotting to settle - your uterus needs time to adjust. I'm surprised your GP didn't simply put you up to Femoston 1/5 to see if that worked well for you!!! Maybe ask to try this version as this is still a higher dose than your first HRT but not as high as the Elleste 2/1. Though you clearly need a higher dose of oestrogen, you didn't need such a big dose?
It is normal to get bleeding in the first 6 months of any conti HRT so it may be a matter of patience. Chopping and changing HRTs is probably not the answer - the important thing is the HRT keeps flushes etc under control then it is doing it's job. Unfortunately erratic bleeding is one of the main reason why women struggle with conti HRT so you could consider switching to the sequential version of Femoston as this would give you a predictable bleed each month which could be less hassle.
Please don't rule out the Mirena - I felt the same way about it as you - however when I got so many problems with conti HRTs, I felt I had to try it and frankly it was the best non bleed HRT regime I ever had. There are many reasons why the Mirena is preferred by so many gynaes - it solves many problems generally and over 90% of women who try the Mirena are happy with it.
OK - THRUSH - this is likely to be urogenital atrophy which is common when meno hits and if you are constantly bleeding this won't help either. You need some local oestrogen e.g. Vagifem ( on prescription ) and use vaginal moisturiser daily - SYLK or the YES products are the best and you can get these online. To restore the vaginal flora balance you could also use Multi Gyn Actigel ( again buy online) as this is great for treating and preventing thrush, bacterial vaginitis , itching etc. Basically, the oestrogen deficiency results in the vaginal flora drying out and therefore the whole area becomes more prone to infections. Maintaining the flora balance will help prevent these problems but it has to be maintained for the rest of our lives to prevent ongoing problems. We get so many women coming to this forum in distress because they are sore, itchy, burning and have UTI symptoms and don't understand why - GPs are not good at diagnosing this but local oestrogen and moisturisers can make a big difference. It takes time for all this treatment to work and one has to persevere and maintain everything but it is worth it.
My suggestions for you would be:
Perhaps keep on the Elleste for a month or two to see if things settle. OR Ask to try the Femoston 1/5 conti, as this dose may be enough to control MOST of your symptoms and maybe reduce bleeding problems - if this doesn't control your symptoms and bleeding continues for more than 6 months then I would consider trying Elleste again ( as it has the most powerful progesterone) or Oestrogel with Provera or Utrogestan but use the sequential versions and put up with monthly bleeds OR seriously consider a Mirena.
Ask your GP for Vagifem - below I will give you the section from the NICE guideline about treatment for urogenital atrophy which you could print off to show the GP.
Buy some Multi Gyn Actigel to treat the soreness and itching. Perhaps take some probiotics and cut out as much sugar as you can to help reduce the chance of thrush (diet can help with all this). Also buy some SYLK or the YES moisturiser and use this after every shower (don't have baths or use anything scented on you ‘lady bits'). Don't use moisturiser at the same time as the Vagifem as it can effect absorption, so use the Vagifem at night and mosturiser in the morning. Vagifem is used every day for 2 weeks and then twice weekly after that - for ever as this will help prevent further problems.
Urogenital atrophy
1.4.9
Offer vaginal oestrogen to women with urogenital atrophy (including those on systemic HRT) and continue treatment for as long as needed to relieve symptoms.
1.4.10
Consider vaginal oestrogen for women with urogenital atrophy in whom systemic HRT is contraindicated, after seeking advice from a healthcare professional with expertise in menopause.
1.4.11
If vaginal oestrogen does not relieve symptoms of urogenital atrophy, consider increasing the dose after seeking advice from a healthcare professional with expertise in menopause.
1.4.12
Explain to women with urogenital atrophy that:
symptoms often come back when treatment is stopped
adverse effects from vaginal oestrogen are very rare
they should report unscheduled vaginal bleeding to their GP.
1.4.13
Advise women with vaginal dryness that moisturisers and lubricants can be used alone or in addition to vaginal oestrogen.
1.4.14
Do not offer routine monitoring of endometrial thickness during treatment for urogenital atrophy.
I had a premature meno in my mid 30s, so used HRT for 25 years and tried just about every HRT there is. I'm now 62 and I stopped systemic HRT 2 years ago but still use Vagifem - so my advice is based on my experiences. I hope this is all helpful. DG x