Tinkerbell - I had a friend who, when I told her I had stopped systemic HRT, immediately said "thank goodness you've come off that awful stuffâ€. She apparently had another friend who had a bad experience with HRT (I suspect through bad advice) so she just jumped to the conclusion that all HRT was dangerous!!!
I'm afraid I believe that the women who do well on ‘alternative' remedies, are actually not suffering badly from meno symptoms in the first place. I have tried almost everything there is to try and spent a fortune with no true success.
Now 62, and very post meno, I just take a few supplements and RED CLOVER - plus, of course, the Vagifem and vaginal moisturisers. The Red Clover is more an attempt to boost things for my heart and bones as I don't think it helps my flushes that much - there is some evidence that an increase in isoflavines in the diet, can help health generally after meno - can't do any harm. DG x