As an aside of 'looking for elderly relatives' thread -
When Dad was at home following discharge from Hospital he had to pay towards his carers due to his savings. He should have had two attend in order to aid lifting when attending to personal care. Twice a day. Two people never arrived, so Mum, then aged 80/81 had to assist. So he was paying for 2 ......
The carers would have their mobile phones switched on. They would answer whilst attending to my Dad which meant that they were always 'behind'. I would have told them to leave the 'phone in the car as Dad was paying for their attendance, Mum being a narcissist refused to take up my suggestion. She wouldn't 'allow' me to insist that 2 carers attended or tell them to leave their 'phones outside of the house. [after Dad died she went on and on and ............. ]
Carers never arrived 'on time'. This is a common problem across the 'care' system because these 'companies' take on too many clients for the high turnover of staff. Many are not qualified, not even having a First Aid Certificate. Some haven't been taught to lift. Mum often felt that they were 'sharp' in their attitude, this was probably due to being in a rush between clients. Some let on that they were paid when they were with a client and not for time on the road! Insurance and CRB were never discussed.
Jump forwards 10+ years when Mum decided to have 'care' for personal attention. She wouldn't pay a qualified person because the Company she choose 'was cheaper', she had been talking with people in the village
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- non of whom had used this type of Service. The owner interviewed Mum at home and they agreed days and times, which due to Mum being very busy, needed to be adhered to. The first carer arrived with a pile of rubber gloves, plastic sheets and boxes of 'stuff' which were inappropriate for Mum's requirements and never used. Eventually she came to the conclusion that her cupboard was being used as storage
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. Mum told me that she was paying for 30 mins. personal care but that she really required an hour. [Would she ask for an hour, would she heck as like
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The girls arrived with their mobiles. They arrived early, late or not at all. The owner never phoned my Mum to let her know that she didn't have enough Staff so Mum would sit, sometimes for half the day, in her nightie. Because she didn't 'employ' thsi company on her return from hospital [arrangements were made for free care by SS], the company ditched her - the excuse being that they had clients with more "pressing" needs. Some of those won't be paying for care.
Mum won't let me investigate having a private nurse/companion on an as-necssary basis, as advertised in
The Lady for example; nor will she consider having
AgeUK letting her know if there is someone in the area who could help.
So the things to watch for:
the constant contact in the client's property between carer and the company they work for which causes a conflict of interests
be aware that times of visits is wishy washy - understandable in bad weather or when there's a road obstruction, however! one lady in her 90s had to get to the bathroom, the carer never arrived, she fell and died as a result .... Court Case pending
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security of money/jewellry/drugs etc. around the house - occasionally a carer is in the care sector in order to access these in the form of theft
confidentiality between clients - because of Mum's standing in her Community she knows many of the people who are visited by the carers and whilst the carers think it's 'news', in fact what she has been told about neighbours, friends, relatives has been out of order! talk about The Grapevine at work
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