Hi Elizabeth Rose & thank you for the lovely long reply. As a lurker before joining MM (unsure I had anything worthwhile to contribute), I'd read something of your story - always with a mix of horror and admiration. You've been through so much with the very frequent migraines, I really don't know how you've coped and remained so positive, but you are an inspiration. Your knowledge of the condition far outweighs mine, so I've read your posts with interest. I'm sure this will be a huge help and comfort to your daughter when she herself gets to meno.
I've always had aura with migraine, but the ocular variant that remains post-meno is far easier to live with than the classical. I've recently read that ocular is a misnomer, but still think of them under this label as the Neuro who diagnosed mine referred to them as such.
Your peri has been so protracted, I do feel for you. I thought at 7 1/2 years mine was bad enough! The three years that I was then post-meno before starting HRT were somewhat easier, but I did just want to offer a little encouragement to you in as much as the classical migraine having seemingly stopped with my last period, I hoped the same might apply to other sufferers, assuming they were not lucky enough to be rid of them before this stage.
Like you, I was advised that transdermal HRT was the best option for migraineurs (as well as for reducing other risks), but having had incomplete resolution of symptoms with these & difficulty using the Utrogestan via the lower entrance, I felt a trial of oral Utro was worth the risk. I've now finished the 3-day withdrawal period during which my GP warned to expect a migraine, but so far, so good!
The palpitations come in lengthy episodes of irregular (ectopic) beats, continually for a couple of hours, then resolve for a few hours before returning. It can feel very unnerving at this frequency! This went on for several years in peri & at that time initially freaked me out, coinciding with the worst of other meno symptoms. Mostly these were worrying because with the thyroid issue it was impossible for anyone to be sure I wasn't being over-treated with thyroxine - palpitations, flushing & night sweats being common to both menopause & having too much thyroxine.
I can absolutely believe your flushing has improved on Vagifem (& the other ladies' reports of same) - this was one of the first things I noticed when I started it 6 months before full HRT & came to look forward to Vagifem night for that very reason. I also think I remember you getting headaches as a consequence of Vagifem acclimatisation & ?being advised this was unlikely. Again, the same happened to me, during the initial 2 week loading, when I would get a headache every afternoon, I assumed as the previous night's dose was wearing off. I think the thyroid issue means those like Babyjane & myself perhaps have more difficulty adjusting to medications, in the same way that many ladies become more sensitive to meds during menopause. It seems to me that with depletion of gynae hormones, we lose a very effective buffer against all manner of external challenges our bodies were able to manage apparently without noticing beforehand.
I hope your migraine continues to improve and that you will soon be completely free of it and able to enjoy many decades post menopause with the appreciation you already feel as this horrible affliction becomes a thing of the past. Fingers & everything else crossed for you.