Hi
I'm 47 and on my third hrt 'regime', which mostly seems to be working. I think I have been in peri for a couple of years at least, although the more I'm learning about the mood impacts I think it may be nearer 5 years as I have been to my gp several times in this period for help, as I've felt all the symptoms & debilitation of depression and yet I knew I was actually happy with my life! It turned into general anxiety then more focused financial & social anxiety. Eventually we agreed between us to try hrt as a possible solution and it would appear to be helping.
Started with patches - my gp's preferred option - but I couldn't get them to stay stuck?! I tried them for 2 months, (changing the patch weekly), but some of the patches only stayed on for 3-4 days.
Next up was Elleste, which I trued for 3 months. This was during Nov, Dec, Jan - our dark months - and I got pulled down into the worst depression / apathy / despair I have ever experienced. I wanted life to end and could see both no point to life and no way out except not living. It was horrendous. I didn't put it down to the hrt though - I 'believed' it & thought it was me, pointless. I think I eventually stumbled on something online as I searched for help, talking about hrt & depression, and I forced myself to get a gp appt, to tell her about this black depression and to discuss changing the hrt.
My gp listened & said she'd try a type with a newer progesterone, and I got changed to Femoston 1/10. I've just started my 2nd month on these and what a world of difference! The deep, drowning blackness is gone. I'm still having difficulties with defaulting to negative thought patterns but I think that's something I can learn to change with consistent practice - the last 5 years have laid down some very negative worn grooves of anxiety thinking to unpick. I'm also still feeling the exhaustion, tiredness and lack of motivation but compared to the winter it's all manageable. Onwards & upwards! And looking forward to the 'after' and embracing my life as Crone 🙂
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I'll keep reading and learning, and will look to add natural supplements & manage my days to give myself breaks when I need them but at last I feel I'm moving forward.
I have particularly found posts explaining about the types of hormones each tablet is made up of by @hurdity very helpful - and explained my different reactions to femoston and elleste duet. Thank you 🙂