Hi Samade
Sorry to hear about your moods and mood swings, as well as the DVT.
When you say it was oestrogen provoked - do you mean it happened while you were taking the pill? The CCP does usually contain very strong synthetic oestrogens which I gather give greater risk of DVT. HRT mostly contains estradiol which is bio-identical with the oestrogen produced in our body so not in the same category of risk. Also patches are preferred in these circumstances.
Do you have any other risks factors for further DVT eg smoking, weight, alcohol, lack of exercise, diet etc? I am sure doctors will have advised you if so to help prevent the chance of it happening again, and perhaps you are on medication too?
From the info on this site HRT is not necessarily out of the question if symptoms become debilitating - but you would need to be referred to a specialist. Here is the info:
Thrombosis
Since HRT is associated with a small increased risk of venous thrombosis, care must be taken when considering HRT use in women with a past or family history of thrombosis. Depending on the indication for HRT and on the cause of the thrombosis, risks and benefits should be assessed. If HRT is to be used, preference would usually be given to the transdermal route (patch or gel) [ref 22]. Specialist advice should be requested. Vaginal estrogen may be used for treatment of vaginal and bladder symptoms.http://www.menopausematters.co.uk/atoz.php#GlossTSomeone posted yesterday about this and I said similar to her.
I can understand your reluctance given your medical history but if the ADs do not agree with you and/or you want to pursue it further then do ask for a referral to a specialist.
Hope you feel better soon
Hurdity x