So, hello.
I am sitting here slightly less scared out of my tiny cotton picking mind thanks to having found you... and not least the funny menopause symptoms thread.
I am 45 and, am extremely ashamed to admit, an ex-smoker. Although there are no half measures with these things, I was not a heavy smoker - more a social one which tended to spiral a bit when stressed - never more than 10/day. I was one of those off/on smokers through my 20s, had given up when I hit 31 and - had the odd relapse but then my world came crashing down 6 years ago and I started again. I finally jacked the whole thing in again in January this year and haven't touched one since.
I have, however, spent the last three years feeling absolutely and utterly awful. I've had chest x-rays, gastroscopies, thyroid tests, iron deficiency tests, certain cancer marker tests, scans, you name it, and each time it has come back with 'there's nothing wrong with you'. And the stream of doctors have progressively come to understand me to be a hypochondriac, I am sure, one even telling me I was a victim of my immunology degree. The only thing I've been told to try is not eating gluten, which helped for a bit with the upset stomachs, excess gas and stabbing pains. No one seemed to care about my feeling of 'my brain gets left behind when I turn my head, and sometimes it contracts', or my constantly feeling slightly fluey (lots of viruses about, you know).
This year I spent 6 months with a sore throat. Was finally given a hefty dose of antibiotics which cleared it temporarily. But I occasionally feel it creeping back.
My newest thing is breathlessness. I am fairly fit - I have a horse. I often, although I haven't for the last couple of months due to various things, cycle 15 miles of Yorkshire's finest hills. We have a treadmill and I can run on that for 45 minutes at 7.5km/hour. So why do I feel like I am going to pass out when I climb the stairs, and why can't I run 30m with my daughter on her pony without my head pounding and feeling as though I'd like to take in the air but my lungs have capped the intake at about 30%? So, back to the doctor and a test for anaemia... no. Normal.
Then I found you. I am so relieved it's not true. Spinning head. Breathlessness. Flu-like symptoms. Quite a few others.... They all seem to peak around just before my periods which are like Niagara falls on a good day. Still regular(ish), though.
Of course, I am going to the doctor again. She said I should go back if the breathlessness got worse. It has, if I am honest. But that could be because I am in a flat spin panic and my brain, whilst physically spinning in the opposite direction to my head, is mentally going forward at 900 miles per hour. At least she is listening - previously, no one seemed to care.
I am so sorry if I have upset anyone going through treatment for cancer, I really don't mean to sound trite.
But thank you for your honesty on your threads.
If nothing else, I have something to beat the bad thoughts with.
Lu.