My experience, in Australia, is that doctors are quite positive about using HRT. I got a good response from my then GP when it became apparent that all my insomnia problems were being caused by menopause. She immediately gave me a prescription for HRT. However, I was the negative one because I had been fooled by all the media scaremongering, and was totally convinced that conventional HRT was going to kill me, so I threw the prescription out.
Instead I opted to go the compounded hormone cream route, and that was a total disaster. Then I thought going to a naturopath was a good idea – another complete disaster. Eventually I relented and actually started to do some proper research on conventional HRT and found that all the scaremongers and advocates of compounded hormones and alternative therapies are, IMO, people who love to play on women's insecurities so they can make money.
I went to a different GP and was put on to conventional HRT straight away. However, my problems weren't over because due to the 2 total disasters I went through I had become dependent on diazepam, and believe me coming off that is no picnic at all, because benzodiazepines and hormones, especially progestogens, do not play well together. I went through almost 2 years of tapering off diazepam, and it was horrible, but things are great now.
Incidentally, menopause may not be life threatening, but the fall out from it can be. During my trials I was definitely suicidal. Had I not eventually gotten things sorted out, I honestly have no idea what would have happened to me.