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CLKD

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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #15 on: March 03, 2015, 03:58:45 PM »

DELEGATE ?  ::) they are old enough to do chores ……….  ;)
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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #16 on: March 03, 2015, 06:02:24 PM »

Jenster, you're welcome.  You'll be like me and really willing to try anything just to find an answer to your problems.  The tingly feelings are horrible, and there's nothing worse, when you are desperate for answers, for the doctor to send you off with a prescription for antidepressants, assuring you that they will make you feel better. I came away with the prescription, but never took a tablet.  (I always have horrible reactions to tablets like this).  My hormones were also checked and deemed normal and the menopause was never mentioned again.  The physio (who is a lady of menopausal age) really had an understanding nature and even disclosed that she too sometimes gets tingly feet.  Falling estrogen levels can cause all these weird symptoms, but unfortunately they are not the ones at the forefront in the general discussion of menopause by GPs.  She had a really calm nature and admitted that she just assumed her tingling was 'her age' and didn't want to trouble her doctor. I only wish I had this disposition, but I'm afraid I'm of the nature that the slightest headache could be a tumour, so I suppose just programmed to have anxiety.  x (Like so many of us).
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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #17 on: March 03, 2015, 06:38:56 PM »

Hello jenster.

Just wanted to send you hugs and to let you know that so many of us feel the way you do.

After a relatively good patch I feel awful again and it is most definitely hormonal.  I think anyone with children would sympathise with you and understand how challenging life can be for us parents.

I'm sorry I don't have a magic wand but I do wish you well and hope you take comfort from the fact that you and your family are not alone on this journey.

Take care.

K.
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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #18 on: March 03, 2015, 07:27:21 PM »

Hi Jenster
Quite a few of us have been right where you are now and I just wanted to say that it will pass. Eat well, every 3 hrs and take little steps each day to overcome something. The kids will be fine and so will you. Keep posting as we can all give tips on what helped us. For me it is bananas, grapes and ginger biscuits. Can you go out for a gentle walk? xx
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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #19 on: March 05, 2015, 06:27:28 PM »

Hi everybody great post, can totally relate, had heart check, fibroid check, suffering from headaches now, cant go back to dr and tell them Im afraid of stroke/brain tumour but I am x
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jenster

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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #20 on: March 06, 2015, 09:01:58 PM »

I cannot thank all of you enough for just listening to me - it is so horrible not to feel good!  I am so glad I am not alone and that in itself is helping me deal!   8)
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CLKD

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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #21 on: March 06, 2015, 09:06:18 PM »

So have that talk with the children?  Delegate !  ;)
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Briony

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Re: Major Health Anxiety!
« Reply #22 on: March 07, 2015, 04:18:34 PM »

Jenster, my heart goes out to you as I too spent two years being told I had possible MS and therefore know how frightening it is. The 'not knowing' is worse. Like you, my symptoms were not the ones we stereo typically associate with the menopause - at the time I had no flushes (still don't), anxiety nor dryness. I had terrible back pain, tingling extremities, dizziness, hideous fatigue, crawling sensations and palpitations. I saw so many consultants and had numerous MRIs and each time I got another 'normal' result, the more anxious and self doubting I became. Luckily a switched on new neurologist immediately said 'peri menopause' and, though I am far from my old self still, things have got much easier. HRT helped, though this forum - and switching GPs - was by far the best medicine!

I really hope you find relief soon too x
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