Ju Ju I also failed the 11 plus and my mother let me know it would take her a long time to get over it. I knew I had not only failed the 11 plus but failed her, let her down, disappointed her. I think subconsciously I spent the rest of her life trying to atone for that heinous crime
You are ok as you are, as am I, but I am only just coming to realise this from interacting in threads on this forum would you believe
Recently my husband received the following slogan,( in a fortune cookie would you believe!) and we both found it profoundly applicable to both of us. It said:
'Character is knowing what you are, not what other think you are or should be'.