Its very true what babyjane says, your weight does even out eventually, if you don't take too much hormones or none for that matter, since I lowered my estrogen to almost nothing (feeling fine and well) the weight has steadily dropped off.
One thing that has pleased me along with diminishing tummy is skinny ankles again, no more water retention caused by estrogen and higher levels then I needed now I am post menopause. I don't have that chunky carb look any more.
Also hormones give you an appetite especially for sweet things. I don't have those cravings any more. Wish my OH would ease up on the sweet stuff though, he is the only person I know who can have coffee and cake in Costa, we then go to the Waitrose and he looks at the cakes there with relish
Give your body half a chance and it will eventually balance itself out in its wisdom.
Just to add I still have something sweet each day, just cut down.