It can feel like you are never seeing the light at the end of the tunnel but with hrt and anti depressants I am sure the treatment will kick in soon. Since being in peri and starting anti depressants I can still be up and down, I'm hoping I will soon be post menopausal with a reduction in symptoms. Some weeks I feel great some weeks the symptoms back, it's a pain in the neck. I do seem to be able to cope better with my symptoms now, but if I'm having restless nights that sets me back. I think it's very common to feel more emotional due to the hormones being up and down, you are not alone with that symptom.
If you feel there is not improvement at all, I would go back and discuss with gp, I do now how horrible it is trundling backwards and forwards to docs. Hang in there x