Hi and happy New Year groundhog and all in this topic
Just had to say I was the younger sister with kids when this situation happened in our family, but I was also the one who did all of the running around as I drive and sis doesn't and she works full-time, me part-time. I felt that even if she had been at work all day, she could maybe have helped me out a bit as I was getting no quality time with my young children. Like you, I did not want to make a big thing of it as even if she was no help, she was still my sis and still at the other end of the phone to discuss worries about ill parent. Such a difficult time though, I was frazzled and an emotional wreck when I gave in to it - I felt it was better for me emotionally to just soldier on and try not to feel hard done by. Easier said than done sometimes though and not helped when your OH makes daft comments, agree with all the posts about how men handle/don't handle situations except I don't think it has anything to do with how mother raised them as my two sons are very different from each other. Groundhog take yourself off for nice soothing soaks with soft music and candles whenever you can and be good to yourself. xx