The worst thing my mother ever said when we were in company:
A friend's daughter had been to Hospital to have tonsils removed. It was mentioned that the daughter had been suffering a cold but the Surgeon still performed the surgery. My comment was "The Anaesthetist must have been happy with your over all condition or you would not have had the surgery done as it would have been dangerous" - especially a tonsillectomy. My mother's instant remark: "Don't take any notice of her, she's only a secretary" ..........
I WILL NEVER forgive her for those words. I was an orthopaedic secretary for 8 years, I could have done a better job than I did if we had been gifted with a good supervisor but that's another story: I worked closely with the Consultants, going into Clinic situations on a daily basis, taking shorthand notes on patients to be typed later. I determined then that the words 'only' and 'just' would be banished from our household!
When I was about 6 years old I had an invitation to a Very Posh Party to be held in a Hotel on a Friday evening. My Mum insisted on it being the Sat., "No one has a party on a Friday" so off Dad and I went, to the Hotel, me dressed in a white dress with a pink satin bow and shoes to match, clutching a parcel: to find that yes, the Party had indeed been hled on the Friday. I tried not to cry but I cry internally even now. Of course, by the time we got back to the Bungalow Mum had torn up the Invitation and put it onto the coal fire - got rid of the evidence then
. From that day to this I have over-checked every invitation etc. we have been given
and would rather be early than late!