hi ju ju ,can I say you sound the exact same as me iv no libido at all, it all went ages ago not been with my partner for a long time ,we do live together,i cant even remember the last time it happened,he just goes along with it ,he works a lot ,when bed time comes,its a good night from me hes the same ,he falls straight to sleep, any how so to me its not a problem,im coming to think now that's why you call it men. o. pause, x