Hi moonbeam

Sorry to hear you are having problems with HRT
I agree with honeybun - if you have stomach problems and headaches you can minimise these with patches. Also for many women it's the progesterone that causes the problems and you don't have to have this.
Form reading on here I know there are other women who have had a hysterectomy that take a while to settle on the right HRT - this is because your body has been put into hormnal shock so this is only a few months ago (I presume you meant 2012?), and it can take a while longer to settle down and stabilise.
Also as you had a total hysterectomy this is more drastic and sometimes women are also given extra testosterone which becomes deficient after a total hyster.
Have you seen the information on this site about hysterectomy and HRT? On the left - orange menu.
Do you mind my asking how old you are - re oestrogen dose really. if you are younger than 50 it's best to try to have as high dose as is permitted to protect your bones.
Re changing the patches - I definitely wouldn't change them every couple of days. From what I remember it takes about 12 hours for oestradiol levels in your body to reach a peak from when you first put the patch on, and of course as soon as you take the other one off the levels (from that one) start to decline. This is why the recommendation is twice a week- but every 3 days is fine.
How dare the doc tell you what is right for your body? The patches eventually will give you a more consistent dose once you find what this is. Don;t despair and ask to go back on the patches in your situation. Also ask about tesoterone.
Are you under a proper gynae for post-operative treatment ie re hormones - or just the GP?
If she won't play ask to be referred. No need to be miserable and feeling ill but it might take a bit of time. Also if you are increasing oestrogen dose best to increase it gradiually - sudden increase can make you heachachey and maybe a bit nauseous for a few days.
Hope this helps
Hurdity x