Silver lady.....your thread April last year is music to my ears. You explain of a book your mum gave you years ago, which prepared you. Another one which has been priceless to you wanting in the main natural methods and you walked yourself among other things through your menopause, which is going to be my way. Its worked for every other hurdle in my life why not this little beauty. Ten past two in the morning!!! Let me get this right, just as we finish one little curse, 37 yrs of.........alongside all the other hurdles......you walk your way through alllll of that. Then when i finally settle down with man of my dreams, the soul mate one. mother nature is sat on the front row on my wedding day with another little package!!!! No libido, insomnia, hot flushes, vaginal dryness (just a matter of time). And so far, since joining this forum, realise after reading your threads, I've got it mild. Is someone going to jump out and yell..........gotcha!! And its all a big joke?