SaraUK,
Have you considered a Women's Health Physio? They can help with a pelvic floor that is too tight - causes burning, urgency, etc.
Apologies if you've already mentioned it.
I second that. Irritated nerves can cause muscles to tighten a physio told me that tight muscles can cause a burning feeling too. Think you already think that use of different products may have irritated.
Thinking more about the tight muscles thing, my bladder issues started at a time of being exhausted with overworking. I have a business and was pushing myself too hard. I was also trying to meet deadlines before going abroad on hol 5 days later.
One other strange thing that I experience now is that when I eat a meal, it eases off, like a bowel relaxation connection. When I’m tense it flares up. Also when I lie flat with a heat pack it helps. I’m always ok when getting up in the morning but it gets worse after 2nd wee.
I started breathing exercises last month, maybe that might help.
Tension or stress does make things worse. Distraction has always helped me where your mind goes off away elsewhere.
If it is the wee hitting the vestibule area that is sore some sort of barrier cream may help if you can tolerate it. I’ve used aproderm barrier cream at times on the vulva with some success.
Hope that you start to get some answers at your appointment in June.