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[Vicky81]

God im crying my eyes out thank you both so much and you couldn't be more right...I am in distress as u both kniw ....what a shame this site has done this to me or maybe others in the future.....how are u meant to get the help.
But im so blessed to have dangermouse crispy and koni and many others who are by my side. Thank you fir being there.
Shame on the nasties.

[Mary G]

I've been on MM since 2015 and people have tried to get me thrown out in the past.  Believe me, it's far, far better on here now with the new generation of menopausal women than it was in the past with overbearing members acting like unofficial moderators and school prefects. It's a much more open forum than it used to be too because before discussion was often closed down by said people.  It was overly judgemental and closed to new ideas.  It sometimes resembled a prissy 1950s WI group not that I was alive in the 1950s thankfully!

If somebody finds a member irritating and doesn't like their posts don't read them.  It's pretty simple really.  A lot if women come on here because they desperately need help, support and kindness. If someone is repetitive so bloody what?  It's not going to cause the bottom to fall out of another member's world is it?

I hope you are as well as can be expected Vicky.  It's going to take time to find a regime that works.
 

[dangermouse]

Ah thanks all for explaining and glad you can, at least, comment here Vicky.

Yes, we’ve certainly been through a lot of controversies here and glad that now it’s not only about one thing that, clearly, does not fit all.

[Minusminnie]

God im crying my eyes out thank you both so much and you couldn't be more right...I am in distress as u both kniw ....what a shame this site has done this to me or maybe others in the future.....how are u meant to get the help.
But im so blessed to have dangermouse crispy and koni and many others who are by my side. Thank you fir being there.
Shame on the nasties.

You could modify your first post on this thread and rename the title “Vickys thread “or something similar.
You can then post and others who want to know where can then find you.

Sort of creates a safe space for you as well as you already keeping your private messaging.

[Vicky81]

Awww thank yiu so much for looking out 4 me means so much xxx

[Vicky81]

I've been on MM since 2015 and people have tried to get me thrown out in the past.  Believe me, it's far, far better on here now with the new generation of menopausal women than it was in the past with overbearing members acting like unofficial moderators and school prefects. It's a much more open forum than it used to be too because before discussion was often closed down by said people.  It was overly judgemental and closed to new ideas.  It sometimes resembled a prissy 1950s WI group not that I was alive in the 1950s thankfully!

If somebody finds a member irritating and doesn't like their posts don't read them.  It's pretty simple really.  A lot if women come on here because they desperately need help, support and kindness. If someone is repetitive so bloody what?  It's not going to cause the bottom to fall out of another member's world is it?

I hope you are as well as can be expected Vicky.  It's going to take time to find a regime that works.
 

Aww Mary i love you you are so sweet to me all the time what a lovely lady yiu are....thank you xxxxx

[Ayesha]

So please Ayshea I'd like to thank you for any support you may have given, but I must admit i dont get a good feeling when I see you have messaged me. So if it's ok....can you not message me and il do the same ? I'd appreciate it. Thank you .

I have never messaged you and never will.
I will also add I am not one of the women on here that complained about you.