Thanks Ayesha and Bombsh3ll.
I don't actually want to add anything else like HRT to the mix, I'm just wondering what my best options are if the current treatment isn't sufficient. Also, I wondered if some treatments are better than others for bladder issues. I know that there may be someone here who might have a good insight.
It's all so complicated that it makes my head spin to be honest.
I now seem to have found a decent doctor but there is never enough time for a proper conversation, which is exactly what is required, and although I have seen a consultant privately, it's going to cost me a fortune if I have to keep going back on a trial and error basis when things don't work and I can't afford that, hence posting on here is invaluable.