So I have been having issues for a while now relating to general health.
I am hypothyroid, I also have Raynaud's as smidge of arthritis.
So trying to be brief, my period STOPPED in August. 1st of the month was the last bleed and nothing since. Previous to that I was regular, but there was no new fresh blood as such.
I am able to use period underwear or even normal underwear to 'free bleed' as such, as there is literally no flow. This has been the case for 6 or 8 months at least.
I have had a coil in place for waaaaaay too long (past trauma) so from a hormonal point of view, that has done nothing for at least 3 years (no judgement).
Ok, so I went for a chat with the GP practice nurse about routine blood tests for thyroid and they did a full blood panel. Most things ok, lowered kidney function, low ferritin, thyroid is HYPER right now due to over medication as shown with 2x recently. Another being done in 5 weeks.
While I was there she reminded me my smear was due so we agreed to do that AND remove the coil, and discussed the use of mini pill as I can't use combined.
Since then I have had ZERO BLEED, and at that point I was 2 weeks late for my period.
I am having my weight monitored as BMI is underweight and the nurse thinks Hypothalmic amenorrhea based on the history of bleeding, or lack of combined with low body weight, my training schedule with weights all pointing to low energy availability. More detail here - I have trained for almost 8 years now, and nothing new has changed aside from calorie intake.
So she chatted with the GP who did some further tests for FSH, LH testosterone prolactin and some others, and those have all come back 'normal' for someone who has been using the mini pill.
BUT all my issues are pre dating when that pill was started.
I questioned if it was 'normal' for there to be no bleed after the coil removal, and should I be concerned about not having had a bleed since Aug 1st naturally, and I just now keep getting told it's the pill.
They seem to be questioning why I am worried about not bleeding while most women would be happy, and I keep telling them because I feel like they arent seeing the bigger picture, and that something doesn't feel right.
Mental health wise, I having been feeling incredibly low for months. Depression, anxiety poor self esteem and other awful thoughts, which has in turn triggerd a past ED, which I will be say I was not 100% honest about with the GP but I did tell her I wasn't able to eat well with how I had been feeling.
With my thyroid condition, it throws up so many curve balls, I never know what is 'normal'.
The relationship with my husband has been strained.
Zero libido, we had sex once since 1st August and its always been a weekly thing even after 24 years together.
I could go on, but I get the feeling I am in the same boat as many people with a list as long as my arm with what I feel is wrong
My gp thanfully has consulted with a gyno on my situation, and has suggested starting everol sequi or astradiol gel 0.06% , alongside 200mg progesterone.
I am of course now seeing advice on if this is the best course of action. My mum basically said it could be a miracle for me as it changed her life when she started HRT.
However I am 42, and I don't know if this is too early, and if this is not needed, why would they offer it?
Sorry if I am asking things that have been asked before.