Hi Marianne Lyra

Sorry to hear about how you feel Vagifem is affecting you.
What I would say, is if you can persist for longer then hopefully you will no longer experience any adverse effects. What happens is when the vagnal tissues become thin due to lack of oestrogen, and then you add oestrogen vaginally, this is absorbed very readily into the body, and although it is only a very small amount, perhaps as you say you are more sensitive to it.
Once the tissues are plumped up (oestrogenised) then hardly any is absorbed, and you will just feel the benefits in your nether regions! This can take 2-3 weeks and in severe cases a bit longer but the fact that you've only been taking it for 6 days after 13 months of no periods - points to absorption through thin vaginal tissues.
After you have reached a good level of oestrogen in your tissues ie they are plumped up, then you just continue with a maintenance dose of twice a week which is sufficient for many women.
Unfortunately vaginal atrophy does not go away and needs lifelong treatment to keep it at bay, and although the natural treatment may help in the short term, it is unlikely to do so in the longer term.
There are different treatment that you can try which you may find gentler, for example estriol creams ( two different strengths) or an estriol pessary called Imvaggis. They are all listed here:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/local.phpHope this helps

Hurdity x