Oh Joziel isn't it dreadful when we're told we're too young for menopause symptoms. That's why my VA took so long to diagnose - in fact I did that myself on here. I'm sitting in the menopause specialist waiting room as I type, hoping my symptoms will for once be taken seriously.
You fingers sound just dreadful. Not knowing what is causing it or how to make it better seems to make it just worse. You do end up wondering what the point of every thing is, don't you.