Hi!
Was your breast disease triggered by oestrogen, if not then U should have been offered HRT sooner.
There is a train of thought that quality of life is important so women even if we have had breast disease, we should not discount HRT because there are several ways of delivery into the body.
After a certain age the chance of cancer lessens until we get older, when women may find that they develop slow growing breast disease. My Aunt was 86 when diagnosed so lived with it as it wasn't causing symptoms.
Anxiety can be treated with appropriate anti-anxiety meds: Propranolol eased the surges that I suffered in the early hours, I would wake terrified anytime after 3.30 a.m. Success from 2002 until 2020. I've also have 'valium' as necessary and now have an emergency tablet when I'm floored by it.
Some find that certain regimes will cause a withdrawal bleed. Hopefully some1 will be along with advice on that one. In the mean time, make a list of worries to take to your appts., ring York Clinic to find out what the waiting list might be and if U are able, once referred U could take a cancellation.
Let us know how you get on.