Thanks Jules, I really think it is hit and miss with the NHS at the moment. I can see this from the ladies on MM, it's scary how your life is literally in their hands. It is a shockingly long time that I have been waiting and all I can think is that if I do have cancer how fast is it spreading and will it be too late ....already at 3 and half months to date and a lot more waiting to come, no wonder my mental health is suffering.I think I might have to start and toughen up but not sure how to because it isn't the staff's fault who you see in hospital is it??
I have been thinking about putting a complaint in but would be worried that this would impact on my treatment.
From my experience of working in public services (excluding the police), those who shout the loudest get further if only to get you off their back.