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Buttercup15

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #30 on: July 19, 2023, 04:47:42 PM »

Is this thread still going?
I read every post and can totally sympathise with every single one of you.
I’m not even 50 and post meno for 2 years. I have the odd day when I feel a bit more full of beans but overall, feel drained, tired and unmotivated most of the time.
I used to be a gym goer and a runner, now I can barely get myself out for a 10 min walk. I barely recognise myself.
I am on patches and have just started Testogel in the hope it’ll help.

How do you keep up with the home, work, keeping healthy? I just seem to need so many breaks I just keep up with the work (from home and because I have to). Nothing else gets done.
I am considering semi or full retirement asap to focus on my health. It would mean adjusting financially but seems the only way to just keep up with life.
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CLKD

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #31 on: July 19, 2023, 05:53:36 PM »

Yep if you've restarted the thread. 

Low VitD levels as well as thyroid function problems can cause intense tiredness.  As can hormonal upheaval.  How long have you been on an HRT regime?

Many find that during peri they have to cut back their working hours.  Depending on your employment, R U able to delegate?
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SarahT

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #32 on: July 19, 2023, 06:26:40 PM »

Hello Buttercup,

I have been on this thread a while back. My own exhaustion and in my case joint pain and muscle fatigue is still ongoing.  I seem to have maybe 10 ok days each month, the rest of the time is hard. I too used to exercise a lot, even up to a year ago. This week me and my husband were doing our  usual hours walk and I had to sit and rest three times.
Also.finding it hard to do daily tasks. I manage about a 1\4 of what I used to do. I do have an underactive thyroid but drs say last full blood count was ok in all points. Am in the process of working on an email to ask what can be going on Tbh I feel I am only   able to live a restricted life. I cannot believe this can be down to peri in my case of meno in yours and that nothing can be done.

I would urge you to ask your dr for blood tests to eliminate anything obvious. It could be something that can be put right.

 As for how to cope? I exercise carefully when I can, I eat as best I can and have learned that the daily jobs I thought were essential now get left. In other words, simple as it may sound, I try to take each day as it comes. Am fortunate I do not have to work full time.
Fortunately my husband understands this is a physical difficulty I now have as part of this hormonal mess.

I wish you well and if I find any answers that may help I will of course share.
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Buttercup15

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #33 on: July 19, 2023, 06:44:16 PM »

@CLKD I had all the blood tests to check thyroid, anaemia etc. All normal. Not checked vit D or B12 but I take a vit D supplement most days and eat animal products/nutritional yeast. I would say my diet is pretty good. Hardly any alcohol ever and little processed stuff.
I am self-employed so can make my own hours but obviously that comes at a financial cost. I find it so hard to focus tho. (Could be due to job boredom too to be fair)

@SarahT Yes as you say I’ve scaled everything back too. I just don’t like the person I am becoming, sluggish and struggling to be active. I wish I could go back to being the person who looked forward to the gym and who couldn’t possibly sit for 2 hours on the couch due to lack of energy and motivation.
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SarahT

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #34 on: July 19, 2023, 06:54:05 PM »

I do understand. I do not like this person,a half person,I have become. Whilst I do try to accept this I also fight it!  Because I just don't want to be like this.

 I do too much when I know that shouldn't,  and then become shattered all  because I just don't feel this can be right. I know we all change throughout our stages in life, but it is very difficult to see others about us able to live active lives and know this is now we were a short time ago. Reality is I do not want to accept it as I feel I am giving in.
So on a stronger day I wildli write an email  to my gp. It has taken me a while to get other peri symptoms under some form of control, and this exhaustion and joint pain is next. Hrt whilst helping me in some ways has done zero to help my exhaustion. I need ( deserve) a better quality of life.

Could you go back to your gp and explain despite blood tests, just how bad and impact this is having on your life?
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CLKD

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« Reply #35 on: July 19, 2023, 08:13:06 PM »

As well as asking for a referral to a dedicated menopause clinic, not a gynae.; to get onto a waiting list. If by the time the appt arrives, if you feel better, you can cancel.
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Buttercup15

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #36 on: July 19, 2023, 08:51:04 PM »

@SarahT Yes I have also wondered if I should just accept it as a normal part of ageing. It is indeed the one “symptom” I cannot shift.
@CLKD My GP is very uncooperative. He wouldn’t agree for me to have my hormone levels checked. I was tempted to go private but the cost is steep.
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CLKD

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #37 on: July 20, 2023, 08:31:06 AM »

We don't have to accept anything these days.  Also, 1 shouldn't have to pay for a menopause clinic - GPs don't know everything .  There are waiting lists for NHS as well as in the private sector.  Let us know how you get on.
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« Reply #38 on: July 20, 2023, 12:28:50 PM »

I must catch up with this thread soon.

Off out for my walk now, but thought I'd put my head around the door and let everyone know I'll be back to this as well.
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CLKD

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #39 on: July 20, 2023, 12:37:56 PM »

>wave<
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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #40 on: July 21, 2023, 12:42:15 AM »

 ;D
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CLKD

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #41 on: July 21, 2023, 08:46:58 AM »

Also Buttercup: hormone blood tests are reliably un-reliable  ::)
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Buttercup15

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #42 on: July 21, 2023, 10:57:59 AM »

Yes, just to make things even trickier. I have to start somewhere though, I’m thinking. I know people go by symptoms but fatigue can be everything and anything. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #43 on: July 21, 2023, 11:57:23 AM »

I remember my Mum having crashing fatigue, she would be cooking the evening meal, suddenly switch everything off, sit down and sleep for several hours. 
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Buttercup15

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Re: The knackered thread
« Reply #44 on: July 21, 2023, 03:05:19 PM »

 :( she must have been wondering what was going on.
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