I hate using the Ovestin, to be truthful, I find myself tensing up. I'm not sure how high I'm supposed to go with the applicator, but I do it as far as I feel comfortable. I am noticing that I feel a bit itchy once I have used it, don't know if that's a side effect. That wears off though after a while. I'm actually not sure now if the pains I have are to do with my bladder anymore, feels a little bit like period type pain at times.