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SarahT

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #15 on: April 03, 2023, 06:16:08 PM »

Mk94
That's fantastic, you should be proud. We all have fears that are very real to ourselves and can feel overwhelming. There are a lot of people here sending support, care and advice. Baby steps is fine, go at your pace. The important thing is you have begun the first step in gaining professional medical advise and help.
I hope you have someone who can be with you if you feel that would help you?

Wishing you well
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CLKD

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #16 on: April 03, 2023, 07:04:33 PM »

Make a list of your worries.  To discuss.  I used to hand mine over and the GP would go over it with me.
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Curlygirl

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #17 on: April 03, 2023, 07:33:21 PM »

Oh you’ve done so well to take that first step, well done.

Just take it one bit at a time. Don’t think too far ahead

Each step you take you’ll find the next one a bit easier to do as you’ll find it’s not as bad as you thought it all was

Are you taking anyone with you?

CLKD has said to take a list with you. That’s a great idea.

Let us know how you get on

Big hugs and much love x
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Katherine

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #18 on: April 03, 2023, 08:14:09 PM »

Well done mk94, i don’t know you but I'm proud of you!

Keep going, let us know how you get on, we are with you xxx
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VanillaLover

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #19 on: April 04, 2023, 08:16:29 AM »

Well done mk94 hope it goes ok for you. We are here for you
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Curlygirl

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #20 on: April 04, 2023, 09:49:06 AM »

Hope the appointment goes well this morning.

Please update us and let us know how it went

Thinking of you 🤗
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Flossieteacake

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #21 on: April 04, 2023, 10:19:44 AM »

You have done so well to call the Dr! That was such a huge step for you and I hope you feel proud of that. I hope you can manage to attend the appointment today. We are all thinking of you.
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Madeline

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #22 on: April 04, 2023, 09:31:21 PM »

Well done you. As you say baby steps, one thing at a time. You are stronger than you think. Let us know how you get on.

Thinking of you my lovely x
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TM73!

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #23 on: April 05, 2023, 03:06:46 PM »

I know exactly how you feel MK94. I am also a health anxiety sufferer, it is truly the worst thing to have. I agree with other posters that it is very unlikely to be cervical cancer and it is great that you have found the courage to speak to the GP who can talk you through having an examination. Smears are so much better these days- I say this as someone who was so terrified I didnt have one for 13 years!!  You can also ask for a little bit of Valium to take prior to an internal (or have a couple of gin and tonics ) .  You need to speak to your GP about your health anxiety and maybe consider anti-depressant medication if you are not already taking some.
I wish you all the very best and please keep us updated.
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Claire MM

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Re: Oh god I'm so scared
« Reply #24 on: April 06, 2023, 02:54:48 PM »

How are you feeling now? I hope the appointment went well, thinking of you xx
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