I'm latest recruit. Unsure if I can help, but think I will learn a lot. It seems we all live expecting, dreading this time. I've dreaded it. Thought because ive a lot of soya in my diet, for the past five years, mum was in 50,s. It wouldn't be just yet. But it decided to arrive just as I married at the end of December. Loss of libido on honeymoon was challenging. But loss of libido isn't horrendous in the scheme of things. So far, restless nights and hot glows are here. I've inherited high cholesterol
, so just recently was started on statins. My other great fear. Both arrived at the same time. Statins are a life saver but I've worked hard to avoid them, maintaining slim figure deliberately, but its not worked. Feel quietly full of fear, menopause, cholesterol, effects of menopause on my heart...mum died aged 53 of sudden cardiac death, did it contribute? Its all a bit much all at once. No females to discuss with. Be interesting to see what your all experiencing. Libby