Absolutely... Yes this is a last resort.
I'm was previously, as mentioned at the start of my post, very fit and healthy, only routine health checks and previously no meds. Had managed my perimenopause symptoms with exercise and diet. (Excercise = gym and weight training 5 days a week and 10k steps everyday for over 2 decades - completely reduced hot flushes etc)
No back pain or pelvic pain previous to this starting back in June last year and I've exhausted every other possible cause 😅 I endured months of physio 3x per day with a great determination to get myself well.
Going to see a private consultant was after I had the ultrasound diagnosis of the fibroids and the 6cm rhside - exactly where I'm experiencing my pain... and I am in so much 'gnawing' pain daily that I my life barely resembles the one I had a year ago.
I don't take having a hysterectomy lightly at all.... I'm not a 'quick fix' person... Even though I've been in menopause for 1 year (Jan 22 last period) I was started on HRT a few weeks ago.... So hormone adjustment is taken care of 🙏
The consultant is a well respected specialist in Laparoscopic hysterectomy surgery. Also there are many patient ratings on various websites I have found after googling her

She came across as incredibly patient, calm, softly spoken and talked through all the pros and cons with me for over an hour. I do feel I have trust in her extensive experience and expertise.
For me this is about solving a source of chronic life changing pain - even if being able to sleep through the night is an after effect of the hysterectomy I think my life will improve for the better.
I've found some excellent info on this forum around adjusting my hrt when I started taking it a few weeks ago...
Thank you again ladies for all your feedback, support and helpful comments.
I will update and let you all know how things go over the coming weeks as I hope it will help other women too.
Claire 🙂♥️