Hi JuCoo2308
Welcome to MM. I am 66 now and stopped using systemic HRT at the age of sixty because, after 25 years of HRT due to premature menopause, sadly my body simply wasn't tolerating HRT anymore. I am still getting hot flushes and many of the usual meno symptoms and I don't expect this to subside.I used Oestrogel successfully on a sequential basis(having progesterone tablets for 10 days each month and then having a withdrawal bleed after that) and this suited me for around 10 years and enabled me to function well. I then tried continuous HRT ( a no bleed regime) but didn't' get on this at all well. In the end I had a Mirena fitted and used Oestrogel daily and this was probably the best HRT combo I ever had.
Over the years I'd tried every conceivable HRT type going and in my late 50s I tried Utrogestan with Oestrogen but, like you, sadly I experienced bleeding issues. I felt great on the Utrogestan but I believe it isn't as strong as the synthetic progesterones and therefore doesn't prevent the uterine lining building up so resulting in bleeding. Some women use Utrogestan vaginally on a sequential basis very successfully but I found this aggravated my urogenital atrophy.
I agree with sheila99 and the others, you could still be peri menopausal, and if you've had children, then the Mirena could be a very good option for you - giving a bleed free regime with minimal side effects. Alternatively, Utrogestan at 200mg for 12 days each month might work better for you but you will get a bleed each month. I would also suggest you start with just one pump of gel each day and see if that is sufficient to control meno symptoms and only increase if needed. Good luck DG xxx